Television is very familiar in
our environment, almost every house has it to entertain people. Even children
spend almost their time to watch television, some parents think that it is like
“a alternative way” in order to prevent their children from bad environment out
side there. But is it a good solution then? Televison is a “small world” that
provides many things for the viewers. Every morning in one of the television
news, it shows us many cases that proves how terrible our condition now. Can
you imagine if every morning we start our day by hearing many bad news.
Furthermore, our news have statement that a bad news is a good news.
It is usual if we hear some body
won a competition, but it will be more interesting we hear an artist has affair
with a young excecutive for example. Ouch...a gossiping is like “a breakfast”
for our house. We lost many good news that can motivate us to be better. What
if every source of informations serve us with the bad news, it is not fair for
the children or teenagers who are searching their identity. It is better if
daily news in newspaper not only talk about the hot issue but also about the
solution and good news.
How about our film? Most of the
films tends to the commercial interest better than moral values for the
viewers. Of course we can find some of them contains moral values that based on
the true story. A film or daily cinema will get a highest rating if it performs
many physical conflicts.
You are what you think, if every
day we see many “violence” in our daily cinema by expressing their angry, see
many bad news that informs us more about our problems better than our
achievement in competition, can you imagine what our mind will be? It is
difficult for us to prevent the global influence, but that is not the matter,
the most important how strong we are to handle the input information to our
mind. Our environment is very dinamic, flexible and unpredictable, that is why
our duty is not to stop the changing but to handle it so that it can be a
solution for all. Change a habbit for adult is more difficult that build a new
habbit for children, also change the world is impossible but it is possible to
change ourself by reset our mind. Our new generation should get a better
condition for their environment. It is time to change our communication.
Parents will not let their children watch TV or access a new information easily
without a guidence from parents.
It is better to open a new
communication between parents, children and environment. As a parent, we can
share our time to family continuously, listen to our children’s need and
discuss their aims with their children. It is time to make them think like we
think.
As a children, we should open our
mind to see the new world objectively, open our hand to accept uour parents’
advices and open our heart to be patient when we would like to try a new thing
for our experiences. Parents, children and environment can be a good
coorperation to reach an ideal condition. When a violence becomes our way of
communication, it can be a dictator way of life.
Author :
Lusiana Nur Hermawati
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